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Maxim,I never tried to push you. With pushing I mean another thing.

I will expain it

The four kinds of actions I explained before can be constructed by taking two values. The first one is case and the second one is relation. When someone is only focussed on himself he chooses for case and when youwant to work together you choose for relation.

When I thought I could help you I asked you to talk with me. I did not just think about myright or anything like that, Iput away my pride and thought about what was best for the community.

When you started to claim I insulted you and you refused to talk I started to care more about case than relation. In tha case I, or anybody else, gives a pushing reaction. That means you value your own right above that ofthe other (in this case because the other, you, does not ant to cooporate.). This means pushing is not like forcing you to do something you don't want to do.

I hope you read this. If you have questions you can ask me anything. I have some basic psychological theories that can explain this all.